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It is everyone’s desire to be adored let alone be loved. For this reason, it is in our nature to try a lot of things in order to make us look more attractive. However, sometimes we get carried away in the efforts that we forget who we are and embrace a personality that is irritating toward those who are around us. Fortunately, there are ways in which you can create a personality that is attractive while at the same time you get to maintain your true identity. The trick is to have a personality that encompasses many different traits of an individual which when combined; they result into a personality that is attractive.
First, have confidence in yourself and in what you do. Confidence is important when you are interacting with people especially if it is your first time you are meeting. By having confidence, you will be able to share your ideas on the topic in question with the utmost clarity and no hesitation. In addition, confidence acts as a sign of you being sure of yourself; that you are not insecure around other people.
Next is to build up your self-esteem. It has been proven through research by sociologists that people with high self-esteem tend to relate well with other people around them more easily than those with a low self-esteem. This can be tied to the reason that people with low self-esteem have poor reaction to criticism even if it is positive. In most cases they will always blow it out of proportion. Also, people with low self-esteem do not how to speak out their mind since they are afraid of what people will think about them. As such, having a high self-esteem is one more step towards having an attractive personality.
Keep in mind that for you to have an attractive personality, you should try your best not to make judgments based on the face value of things. As they say, “do not judge a book by its cover“. By this I mean that you should not be quick to judge people who you meet by just looking at them. Always make an effort of knowing the person better even if he or she rubs you in the wrong way on your first meeting. It is only through getting to know them better that you will be able to discern why you felt that you couldn’t get along. The good thing about this particular trait is that same treatment will be extended towards you.
Having an attractive personality means that you should be able to communicate well in order to pass on ideas and views to other individuals. Learning to be able to communicate effectively will come in handy more so when you are meeting people for the first time. This means that you should be able to make a conversation with someone you have never met before and make it appear as natural as possible. Knowing how to keep a conversation flowing will make people more comfortable around you since the awkward silence will not be there.