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How To Build a Lasting Relationship

How to Build a Lasting Relationship

Most of us concentrate on getting the right date but never have we considered what happens after we have them in our lives. It is actually a thought that many people in whichever type of relationship fail to consider. How do you build a lasting relationship with that special someone? How do you keep your partner interested in the course of the relationship and make it last forever just like that beautiful dream you have always had since you were young?

Relationships can be unpredictable and that scares the hell out of us. It is without a doubt that when you find someone that you have fallen for, you will do everything possible to keep that relationship going forever. However, it is sadly unfortunate that there is no clear cut formula on how to do that. This can be attributed to the various personalities that characterize every relationship. In other words, in all relationships scenarios, the parties involved normally have unique personalities, dissimilar experiences, disposition and vision, goals which all basically make the whole process of assessing whether the relationship is going to last long a difficult task to partake.

Despite that, there are some techniques and tips that have been proven to offer solutions on how you could maintain a relationship that is meaningful, self-sustaining, and successful. Some of the techniques being referred to include;

  • Maintaining a healthy sex life in the course of the relationship. Sex plays and important role in relationship and it goes without saying that its importance cannot, whatsoever, be overemphasized. It is that fuel that keeps the relationship solid and unscathed by other factors considered as relationship killers. It is normal to experience a declining zest in your sex life in the course of the relationship but it should not be ignored. In some cases, the decline could be as result of hormonal imbalance while others could be attributed to a stressful workload. Finding the root cause of the problem will play a great role in determining the direction of the relationship. Never at any point of the relationship should you assume that your partner understands and will be willing to stand by your side until you make some changes.
  • Make enough time for sharing. Most of us get caught up in daily activities which eventually eat into the time that we spend with our loved ones. It doesn’t hurt to send a text or make a call to your partner. Thanks to technology, distance barriers and schedules are no longer an issue. Certainly, nothing makes it even better than sharing how your day transpired. You have to do all you can to stay in physical contact with your partner and always make time to talk.
  • It can be challenging to deal with a relationship but most relationships fail as a result the lack of willingness to merge personalities into one. However, I do not advocate for a merger of personalities that will lead to you forgetting you identity. What I am after is you being able to appreciate what your partner has to bring to the relationship with regard to personality, hobbies and preferences.

In any type of relationship, challenges will always be there and those should be treated as huddles. It is actually how you deal with every challenge that will determine how far your relationship can go.

About Jason Cooper

Jason Cooper is a writer and contributor to Engaged Bloggers. He received a Bachelor's Degree at Egerton University in 2009 and is currently pursuing a writing career. He writes about different topics such as technology, lifestyle, relationships, and other interesting topics.
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