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I have come across many people who believe that all relationships are inherently bad. They might have had failed relationships, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that all relationships are ill-fated. Far from it. There is nothing more beautiful than being in a loving and loyal relationship.
So, what makes a healthy relationship and what are the pros and cons of relationships?
Not All People Cheat
There are men and women who cheat. You, too, might have cheated on your partner or your partner might have cheated on you. However, this doesn’t mean that everybody cheats. In fact, there are people who remain loyal to their partner because they believe that a loving and healthy relationship brings much more joy and satisfaction than temporary flings. If you can have one such person in your life, you perception about relationships will change for the better.
You Won’t Be Unhappy Just Because Your Friends Are Unhappy
You are single, but you have friends who are in unhappy relationships. So, you might think that your fate won’t be any different if you have a relationship.
However, remember that you are different from your friends and your circumstances are different from theirs. What you need to do is to learn from their mistakes and avoid committing them.
You Don’t Have To Forget About Your Career
Not really. Being in a relationship is unlikely to have a negative impact on your professional goals. You just need to find somebody who will understand your aspirations and stand by you.
Stay Away From People Having Trust Issues
Just because you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend, you don’t have to end your friendships with members of the opposite sex. If your girlfriend or boyfriend objects to this, it is a clear sign that he or she has serious trust issues which will ultimately spoil your relationship. Stay away from them.
Don’t Chase A Person Who Is Not Into You
If you realize that the person you are trying to win over is not really into you, you have to stop chasing them. Look elsewhere. You should find someone better.
You might have had a failed relationship with one person. Then falling in love with another person possessing the same qualities is a mistake because history can repeat itself.
Relationships Might End, But They Are Still Worth Our Time
Yes, relationships might end, but they still help us grow into mature individuals. Every relationship brings with it both positive and negative experiences. These are all great opportunities for learning. The truth is that if you really want a relationship to work, you can make it happen.